Tarantula owner refuses to let neighbors spray pesticides on her property, claiming her pet is more important than neighbor’s fear of insects: 'She's 10 years old and her name is Churro'

Advertisement
  • A pet owner holding her tarantula.
  • I live in a duplex. My neighbor messaged me a couple of days ago asking if it was okay to spray my side when they had the pesticide people out. I said no. For starters, I don't like pesticides, in
  • general. Also I have MCAS and recently had a flair up that resulted in me loosing about 25% of my hair. But more importantly, I keep tarantulas (also 2 snakes and a dog).
  • For those who don't know, pesticides being sprayed outside can cause DKS in pet tarantulas and k I them.
  • I know not everyone is gonna sympathize with my specific choice of pet, but I think it's important to point out that I've spent a lot of time and money on them and am very emotionally attached. They have names.
  • They have personalities. One of them is like 10 years old. and her name is Churro. Most of them I've raised myself since they were small enough to be measured in millimeters.
  • Baby tarantula resting on a human's finger.
  • He messaged me back that "that's not gonna work" because his roommate has a phobia of stinging insects and spends a lot of time on our shared porch and she had an incident recently where a wasp flew into her hair.
  • Now, this is where i might be the AH. Don't get me wrong. I'm sympathetic to the fact that she has a phobia. Like, that really s ks and I feel bad for her that she had such a scary experience.
  • Getting any sort of bug in your hair can be scary, let alone one that could sting you! But... I also feel like it's easy enough for her to just... go inside to get away from the wasps? Honestly,
  • not making a fuss about the fact that they want to spray their side of the duplex is more than enough of a compromise, since even that is going to be putting my tarantulas at risk. We
  • don't get territorial or defensive species of wasps here anyway, just muddaubers, so I'm more than happy to go out and find the wasps nests and get rid of them myself.
  • Legally, I'm in the clear. I own my side of the duplex. It's my property. If they spray my side without my permission, that's trespassing (I'm pretty sure). But like... morally/ethically is it okay for me to put my pets over someone else's phobia?
  • Quiet_Road_354 NTA at all. You don't want poison on your property. End of story. The pesticide is bad for humans too and of course you want to protect your pets.
  • leslieramon NTA - I used to have a trantula as a pet, she would cuddle all over my hair and loved to play with plastic caps. Protect your babies!
  • Flaherty_Joanl it's your property. You said no, and you have very valid reasons. Her phobias_ks but "go inside" is a pretty reasonable alternative when the other option is potentially kng your pets.
  • thenagel NTA i will admit that the idea of having spiders as pets is weird to me - however, that doesn't matter. they are YOUR pets and you should protect them just as thoroughly as i would my cats.
  • Daddinator1701 NTA. You are under no obligation to risk your own or your pets' wellbeing because of something that is in no way your issue or your responsibility
  • MasterRKitty NTA-they are YOUR pets and YOU should prioritize them over strangers. Tell your neighbor to find a good therapist.
  • naranghim NTA. Once someone's phobia starts affecting others around them, it's time for them to get professional help rather than expecting people to accommodate them.
  • NoSmile4407 Pesticides are bad for dogs to walk on also since they lick their paws. Your property, your rules. Insects fly in a free space called air. Spraying pesticides on your porch won't cause a no fly zone for wasps.

Tags

Scroll Down For The Next Article